Q Is it safe to use sex toys ?

If you are intending to go for sex toys, take the proper precautions not to transmit the STDs or other blood borne diseases like HIV, Syphilis, Hepatitis B etc. Some tips while using the sex toys - Keep sex toys clean: wash them after each use; cover penetrative sex toys, such as vibrators, with a new condom before handovering it to someone else; do not share sex toys or have a different set of sex toys for each partner. It is important to choose the safe material which will not produce the allergic reaction. Use of lubrication is a way which will enhance the pleasure and safety of sex toys.

Q What is spermicide?

Spermicide is a contraceptive substance that destroys sperm, inserted vaginally prior to intercourse to prevent pregnancy. The common active ingredient of spermicides is nonoxynol-9. This used in the form of jelly.

Q Brown discharge after sex?

If you have the discharge immediately after sex, then it might be possible that you are having the sex for the first time. If the discharge is after a few days, then it is suggestive of the pregnancy and the it is the implantation bleeding. When you rule out the two condition, then the probability goes to the any infection of the vaginal tissue. For this you must consult the gynecologist.

Q I always fancy about my best friend. Am I gay?

It is normal and it does not label you as gay if you occasionally fantasise about your best friend. Many heterosexual men and women have sexual dreams of the same sex. As per the opinion of one psychologist gay people fantasise about their own sex while masturbating while heterosexual dont. The important thing is to accept that it is ok to be not sure and take your own time in deciding which may you want to go.

Q i am 23 virgin. in a park a lady having 7 yr old small boy asked me to have sexual relationship with her. i think she is not happy with married life . i think i should move further and have sex with her. What precaution to take during such sex?

Ideally speaking it is not advisable that you indulge in such activity. Going for a physical relation with an unknown person always carries the risk of getting an infection. However if you want to do it see to it that you use a condom while penetration as well as oral sex. Do bear the consequences of this relationship in mind before moving further; on her married life as well as your own.

Q Can a girl get pregnant from semen on her buttocks?

No. But if the semen rolls down to the vagina then there is a chance of getting pregnant.

Q How to make artificial vagina?

Hello. There are n number of techniques to make fake vagina at home. You can use any soft but firm material for this, like a glove inside towel roll, or two pillows on each other, or toilet paper roll and condom etc. Remember that you should use soft and non-hurtig material to make it at home. Though none of this home made techniques make you feel the actual goodness of having sexual intercourse with a female, but you can feel some closer to it. More better option we can suggest is to buy an artificial vagina from the shop of sex toy. The feel with these kind of sex toys is more realistic and more easier than making it at home. Hope this finds helpful for you.

Q Will having sex during pregnancy harm my baby?

If you have an absolutely normal pregnancy, you can safely have sex between the 3rd to 8th month. However, if you have any risk factors or complications like spotting or bleeding in early pregnancy, abdominal pains or cramps, broken waters, a history of cervical weakness, a low-lying placenta ( placenta praevia), a history of miscarriage or a twin pregnancy, its best to avoid intercourse. Your gynaecologist is the right person to advise regarding the safety of intercourse keeping your pregnancy (whether normal or risky) in mind.

Q My flaccid penis size is just 3 inch and erect measures upto 4.8-5.2. My parents forcing me to marry next year. I am 27 year old. Will i be able to have a sex with my wife with this size. Plz help me

Yes. You have got absolutely normal size of penis. As only 1 inch of the outer part in female vagina is sensitive, you need not worry about the length of penis. Erection is important than the size which will ensure a healthy sexual intercourse. More over love making skill is more important than size of penis.

Q Are all STDs link with HIV.

No. There are many other sexually transmitted disease like gonorrhoea, syphilis etc which are not related with HIV. The cause for each of them is different; just the mode of infestion is same the sexual mode of transmission.