Q hi, My husband underwent piles surgery on last tuesday and was there in hospital for 2 more days. He got discharged yesterday(thursday). but he is having great problem in passing the stools. He almost faints and become soo weak after going to bathroom. He is havings sitz bath, applying cream and taking tablets also. But still the problem exists. Please help and tell us how can he reduce pain while passing the stool.

He will have the pain and difficulty for more 3-4 days. You have to give him more liquid diet and water which will ease the stool formation and relieve the pain. Give him more fibre containing food to prevent the constipation. Take the medicines regularly as prescribed. Give him a glass of buttermilk or a small bowl of yogurt everyday proper digestion of the food. Let him do some exercise for about 30 min a day regularly like walking, cycling or swimming etc after the recovery. Avoid the alcohol and smoking. If the problem persists longer, then consult the surgeon.

Q Im a 30 yr old male, i been travelling a lot of late and this caused me severe pain in the back and numbness in the leg.I consulted a neurologist who suggested an MRI scan.The report is 1.L3-L4 mild circumferential disc bulge with mild indentation over thecal sac with moderate sparing of CSF column with sparing or bilateral lateral recess & neural foramina. 2.L4-L5 mild circumferential disc bulge with moderate indentation over thecal sac with mild sparing of CSF column with sparing or bilateral lateral recess &neural foramina. 3.L5-S1 diffuse disc dessication changes with broad based posterior disc extrusion causing thecal sac indentation & loss of CSF column with narrowing of bilateral neural foramina(left>right). My height is 6.2 and weight is 80. Please help me with the answer soon. Is it something serious and what treatment would be done and how long would it take for the recovery and what are the things that i need to be careful from here on. Thank you.

Based on your MRI report the condition is mild to moderate at this stage. But if ignored can turn into something serious. Your symptoms are due to the pressure on the nerves due to disc bulges form L3-L5 and disc dessication at L5-S1. Treatment options for such condition includes use of pain killer to manage pain, physiotherapy to strengthen your back muscle and surgery as last resort. Avoid lifting any weight, sitting in abnormal posture or anything that can put pressure over your back. Use of lumbar belts. The changes that has taken place in your spinal column can not be reversed but with proper care they can be prevented from progressing further.

Q I am allergic to condom what is an alternative ?

If you are allergic to latex condom you can use polyurethane condom. Other options that you can consider is use of spermicidal gel and withdrawal method. For some the spermicidal gel that are used with condom can cause allergic reaction, hence it necessary to rule out that. If you married than you can ask your wife to start oral contraceptive pills.rnrn 

Q sorry to ask all this but i have internal fear to meet a doctor so i am clearing my doubts by on line i have a problem that my sperm will discharge immediately if her white touch to my penis but i have interest to do sex for more time please solve my problem

You are being anxious. Pace your act slowly. Do not hurry. Indulge in lots of foreplay. Every thing will be fine. As a word of caution even if you discharge quickly for the first time do not worry as it is common with most men.

Q Need help related to phimosis

Treatment of phimosis are of two types surgical and non-surgical. The choice of treatment will depend upon the acuteness and severity of the problem. Consult an urologist to decide what is best for you.

Q Does vaginal cream cause breast growth in men?

What exactly do you mean by vaginal cream? In any case, gynaecomastia (breast growth in men) is genetic and has no co relation with any cream.

Q Hello I am 28 years newly married .i am sexually weak ,the time duration is not enough .what can i do??

What you face is called as performance anxiety. It is common among newly married mens. The reason behind it is nervousness in front of your partner or doing the act in hurry. For most couples the duration of sex is betwee 3-7 mins. So if you are in this category you need not worry. How ever you can follow these simple measures to improve your time. Pace slowly. Give more time to foreplay. Do not hurry. Try to do sex more often. Over a period of time it will improve. If not planning for pregnancy then use a thick condom. It will delay the sensation to your penis and will help you to last long. You can also practice stop-start method. Divert your mind to non sexual thought the moment to feel you are about to ejaculate and once you are relaxed restart again.

Q What is stomach flu?

Stomach flu is another name for gastroenteritis. In this disorder there is inflammation of the stomach as well as small intestine. Patient suffering from stomach flu has symptoms like pain in abdomen, diarrhea, fever, muscle ache, vomiting, etc. It is a kind of viral infection which is caused due to consuming contaminated food or drink. Treatment includes adequate rest, hydration, freshly home cooked food and medication to manage fever and diarrhea.rnrn 

Q Foreskin wont retract over head

Unable to retract foreskin is called as phimosis. It is of two types complete phimosis where foreskin cannot be retracted even in flaccid state and relative phimosis where foreskin can be partially retractable. Depending upon the severity of complaint treatment option can be planned. Treatment option include non-surgical and surgical methods. Consult a urologist to know what is suitable for you.

Q What can cause orgasm problems in men?

Orgasm is release of sexual tension characterised by sense of sexual pleasure. The length of a mans orgasm is estimated to be in between 10-15 seconds on an average although they may last upto 30 seconds. In men it is denoted by ejaculaton of semen. However problems associated with ejaculation can affect a mans ability to achieve orgasm. They include : Anejaculation, premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.