Q On July 26th, 2012 I received an unprotected oral sex from a female bar dancer. It was a very casual and intermittent kissing which altogether lasted for about 2 mins. But I remember her giving me a hand massage for a long time using her saliva for lubrication... again..On Aug 26, 2012 I got into a protected vaginal intercourse with an escort. As I was quite nervous about the consequences it got over pretty quick...Just 2-3 mins without any condom damage / friction. After 3 weeks, I started getting a lot of body (muscle and joint) ache, headache, fatigue, feverish feeling (never exceeded 99 degrees though) and itching..After checking over the internet , I could see that combination of all these together point to a possible HIV infection :( Although the typical symptoms like body rash, swelling in the armpits /groin area/ neck, were not observed on my body. Still, I was really got scared...and decided to go for a medical test. Therefore on Oct 3rd ( 9 weeks after unprotected oral and 5 weeks after the protected sex) I got myself tested for HIV and Hepatitis infections... and on Oct 10, 2012 , my doctor told me that I am free from any infections, which certainly gave me a BIG relief. However, as all the symptoms were still very much there, I went for complete HIV / STD test On Dec 20, 2012 ( @5 months after unprotected Oral and 4 months protected sex) after completing the 3 months window period.... The tests were negative except HSV1 ( 2.5 rating, which seems to be quite common in adults)... Please tell me doctor if I could assume that I am free from any infections and move forward..Will never repeat this mistake again.
Do not worry. You have taken all precautions during sex and you have also undergone all the required tests. You are safe and free from infections. Remove all the past mistakes from your mind now. Practice safe sex in the future. Now get over all your fears and start focusing on all other aspects of life. Maintain a trust worthy one partner relationship to avoid any risk. In unprotected oral sex if one partner is infected and other partner is having cut or ulcer in mouth than infection can spread so avoid unprotected oral sex also.