Q What is the best way to help a youngster who is SELF HARMING themself
Self-harm is when a child or young person cuts, burns, bruises or poisons themselves. It does not usually mean an attempt to commit suicide. Its usually a sign of deep distress. There can be long-term consequences to the childs mental and physical health if they do not receive the help, understanding and support they need. As a parent, suspecting your child is self-harming can be very distressing for you, but it is important that you stay calm and work out how you can best help your child. Provide first aid. You may not be a person they can talk to at the moment, but let them know you want to help. If they do start talking, just listen. You can show you are listening by summarising what they have told you in your own words. This may help them to think more clearly when they hear their story repeated back to them. It is important you dont get upset or angry. Persist in your request for them to get help. Share your concerns. If you suspect your child is self-harming but not willing to talk, or you fear this might be a reaction to abuse, bullying or neglect, take help of your family doctor, find a friend you trust or look for support groups.